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This week, on Tuesday December 20th, 2022, I held a talk for the second time. It was for the last episode this year on The Monthly Dev event hosted by daily.dev.
Struggles
My talk was about How to get a job as a developer with soft skills when tech skills are weak.
Even though I feel very confident with this topic, I still struggle when talking about it in English (my first language is German). Of course I practiced a lot before the event so the vocabulary I am going to use during the talk are at least somewhere in my little brain.
But when it comes to the Q&A session afterwards, my brain goes blank 😵💫.
TIL: I still lack English skills when it comes to Q&As....
Since I can prepare for the presentation, my brain has all the words I'll use stored somewhere, but where are the words I need for the Q&A afterwards? Where are they hiding in my little brain? 🙈19:50 PM - 20 Dec 2022
Is that a reason to stop giving talks and creating content in English? Never ever.
That's just the beginning
I don't even think about quitting just because I most often fail at the Q&A. Do you know how my English skills have improved over the last 20 years?
Some background information
Middle School
Austria, Countryside, 1998, middle school children (10-14 years old) start learning English at school. There were 3 groups, I was in group 1, the best group of the three. But I was also the worst student in this group.
While other students started to read even books in English, I didn't care at all. When and why would I ever use that language? I was not even able to talk in written German so that people from cities or from Germany could understand me, but only in dialect 😓.
High School (15y-19y)
Austria, Countryside, 2002, start of High School. I failed English every year and also the A-levels. I had to study over every summer (while other students were on vacation) to take a huge exam on the entire year's content to get into the next class.
To this day, I don't know how I made it to the final exam without repeating a year of school.
But I did make it. And I thought: great, never English again. Then, in 2008 I moved to the biggest city in Austria, Vienna. No goal, no plans. Huh, I guess I just played dumb for too long 😅.
Everything started to change
How little did I know about the world at that time. Moving in with my oldest brother seemed very stressful at first (referring to English, see next paragraph), but after a few years it was the best thing that could have happened to me.
We were/are both movie and series freaks. We loved watching them together almost every day. With the small difference that my brother watches them all in the original language 🤢.
So what to do? Watch alone in German or with my brother, which was super fun, and we would discuss for hours afterwards and .... learn some English?
Fortunately, I decided on the latter 😇. At first it was very frustrating. With subtitles, reading everything and so many words I had no idea what they could mean.
But as the months went on, it got better. I had to look up a lot fewer words, and I even started reading books in the original, if that's English. Now I could never watch a series or movie if it wasn't in the original language.
And of course, that helped me soooo much when I started learning programming over 10 years later. All videos and tutorial in English, and I could understand it.
I started speaking in 2017 when I was in Japan for the first time and there was no other way but to communicate in English. And since I've been active in social media since 2020, I've been speaking a lot more: coffee chats, Twitter Spaces, and now talks.
Conclusion
As you can see, I've come a long way and I'm not thinking of giving up on these great accomplishments of the last 15 years.
It took me way too long to realize how important English would be. I could have been so good at it if I had started focusing on it in school.
Now, it is what it is. I will practice and keep trying until I feel confident speaking in English even in unprepared situations.
The joy of being at all these events, creating content that could help others is much greater than the fear of making a mistake in English.
In case you missed the event, here's the recording.
This content originally appeared on DEV Community 👩💻👨💻 and was authored by Julia 👩🏻💻
Julia 👩🏻💻 | Sciencx (2022-12-21T18:07:43+00:00) Stop being afraid to speak in a foreign language. Retrieved from https://www.scien.cx/2022/12/21/stop-being-afraid-to-speak-in-a-foreign-language/
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